When I first started out as a sex therapist thirty years ago, I was taught that difficulty ejaculating was rare, that it was very hard to treat, and that it usually suggested deep-rooted psychological problems. The reality is that difficulty ejaculating is rather common. Feel free to skip ahead if you like. Biologically speaking, an orgasm is simply a reflex. Sensory inputs get processed by the central nervous system. Your orgasm reflex is a bit different, since psychological stimulation figures into it too. But the principle is the same.
What causes delayed ejaculation?
If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. However, his difficulty with orgasm can be caused by any number of reasons, many of which are treatable. Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your lover scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. Your man may still experience the sensation of orgasm without being able to ejaculate, which can actually be a good thing as it can help him experience multiple orgasms [[ 4 p 27]. Still, he may be frustrated about his inhibited ejaculation or worried about the underlying cause. Differentiating between dry orgasm and no orgasm at all can help you figure out what that cause is. You can help, but he must take the initiative.
Sexual Health Delayed ejaculation. Sometimes, ejaculation does not happen at all. Also, sexual response often changes with age. See your doctor if you have been experiencing an unwanted delay of about minutes or a frequent inability to ejaculate. Delayed ejaculation can be lifelong or it can develop after a period of normal sexual functioning. For some men, delayed ejaculation is situational for example, it may only occur during sex with a partner and is not a problem when masturbating. For other men, delayed ejaculation occurs in all situations.
Delayed ejaculation DE is a common medical condition. In some cases, ejaculation cannot be achieved at all. Most men experience DE from time to time, but for others it may be a lifelong problem.